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However, as we step into the real world, we realize something: help may come, but no one is coming to rescue us.
No one is going to wake us up early to chase our dreams.
No one is going to hand us success.
No one is going to fight our battles for us.
If we want something, we have to go and get it.
I have 2 questions, and please think about it,
1. How many times have you waited for the "right moment"?
2. How many times have you blamed others, circumstances, or even luck for where you are in life?
I have no answers too, but I believe that the truth is, waiting and blaming will never change anything. The only way forward is to take responsibility.
Taking responsibility means accepting that your life is in your hands. It means having the courage to own your mistakes, learn from them, and take action to improve. It means not relying on excuses but on effort.
In Islam, we are taught to make an effort (ikhtiar) and to have trust (tawakkal) in Allah. Allah says in the Qur'an: Surah At-Taubah:105
وَقُلِ اعْمَلُوْا فَسَيَرَى اللّٰهُ عَمَلَكُمْ وَرَسُوْلُهٗ وَالْمُؤْمِنُوْنَۗ وَسَتُرَدُّوْنَ اِلٰى عٰلِمِ الْغَيْبِ وَالشَّهَادَةِ فَيُنَبِّئُكُمْ بِمَا كُنْتُمْ تَعْمَلُوْنَۚ
I think Yes, life is unfair. And Yes, challenges will come. But the moment you stop expecting someone else to fix things for you and start working on yourself—that's when you take control. That's when real change happens.
So, stop waiting. Stop blaming. Start taking responsibility. Your future is not in someone else's hands—it's in yours.
I think enough for my speech. I hope we all can get message about my speech, to taking responsibility in our life.
Please don't see who am I, but see what I said.
انظر ما قال، ولا تنظر من قال
Look at what he said, don't look at who said it